How many grudges are you holding?

How many grudges are you holding?

It’s easier said than done to let the past be the past. When we experience resentment or anger because someone did or said something that offended or hurt us, we’re holding a grudge. Often we hold on very tightly, and for a very long time. This keeps us from dealing...
Keep on keeping on

Keep on keeping on

With us being so close to the end of the year and with so many people in the throes of exams, I am hearing lots of comments about being tired, irritable and some even considering not writing their exams. So, I thought it was a good time to remind ourselves to keep...
Lead with vision, not control

Lead with vision, not control

Last week we took the first step to overcome micromanaging by tapping into the reasons we fall into the trap in the first place. Now we can take the second key step together, break the habit and… Lead with Vision… not Control Step #2: The solutions for...
Are you a micromanager?

Are you a micromanager?

I am sure you have all – like me – had the misfortune of being managed by a micromanager. Or maybe, at times, you have even recognised yourself falling into the trap of micromanaging despite knowing it doesn’t work. It’s a pattern of insanity we can all...
What are your choices?

What are your choices?

Denis Waitley sums it up pretty well when he says that there are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist or accept the responsibility for changing them. When you get to the root of it, it really is as simple as that, isn’t it? But that...