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Are you ready for ‘R’?

by | Oct 23, 2012 | Emotional Intelligence, Relationships (Self and Others)

Last week we looked at the first letter of the word ‘PRIDE’ as a tool to turn demotivation into motivation. The ‘P’ stands for a POSITIVE environment. How did you do in that area this past week? Were you able to create a more positive environment at home or at work? How did you do it? And how do you plan on sustaining it?

This week we are going to focus on our second key step to…

Recognise and Reward

Your Key Steps Coaching for the week ahead:

P = Create a positive environment.

R = Recognise and reward. There’s a well-known management principle that says, “the things that get rewarded get done”. I would agree with this principle provided we do not make rewards routine (like 13th cheques or incentives), or give them out before the task is done (almost like a bribe) or assume that money is all it takes. Mark Twain once said that he could survive for a whole year on a good compliment. I am sure you can relate to the glow and motivation a sincere “thank you” elicits? I know I can. It’s nice to be appreciated and recognised for the value you add.

How can you do this? Start by catching people doing things right. Often, when things are going wrong, we distort reality and make everything wrong. Look for what people – your team, your partner, your kids, your boss, etc. – are doing right and say “thank you”… say it often, let them know how much you appreciate them and watch their spirits soar and the spring return to their step. As for monetary rewards, I say forget the annual incentive and just pay people well right from the start – make sure it’s enough to take the issue of money off the table. Then focus on recognising their efforts and make sure they know what an important role they fill and how much value they add. Help them to see that they can…

“be the difference that makes the difference

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Namaste,

 

NOTE: The information in my blog may be freely shared and re-used in any online or offline publication, provided it is accompanied by the following credit line: This was written by Dr Sharon King Gabrielides, and originally appeared in her free bi-weekly  ‘Key Steps Food for Thought Blog’ available on the Key Steps website.

Dr Sharon King Gabrielides, EQ Expert, Founder and CEO

Sharon is a dynamic facilitator, speaker and executive coach with over 25 years’ experience in leadership development and organisational transformation. Her PhD thesis contributed a framework for holistic and sustainable leadership development that was published by Rutgers University in the USA. She is faculty of numerous business schools and highly sought-after by leading corporates because she works hand-in-hand with them to create sustainable results and long-term success. In 2020, Sharon was inducted into the Educators Hall of Fame, which is a lifetime achievement award, recognising excellence and her contribution to the field.

Sharon is one of only three women in South Africa to hold the title of Certified Speaking Professional (CSP) – the Oscar of the speaking industry. She is also a COMENSA Master Practitioner (CMP), a qualified Modern Classroom Certified Trainer (MCCT™) and an accredited Global Virtual Speaker. Sharon is also a registered Education, Training and Development Practitioner (ETDP), holds an Honours degree in Psychology and practices as an NLP master practitioner.

Most important to Sharon is that she has become known for her genuinely caring manner, practical and transformational approach, and for providing valuable tools and that allow people to take Key Steps to really… ‘be the difference that makes the difference.’

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