March 14, 2016
2013.09.09.How can you NOT get what you want

How can you GET what you want?

Negotiate it! The world is a giant negotiation table, and like it or not, we’re all participants. We all negotiate in our personal and professional lives every day. Last week we explored what not to do, so this week will […]
March 8, 2016
2016.03.07.How do you NOT get what you want

How can you NOT get what you want?

Don’t negotiate! I used to be quite reluctant to negotiate. Many years ago, being a psychology student, I started to look into why this might be and where it could stem from. After I had considered – and ruled out […]
March 1, 2016
2013.02.25.Do you want to open doors

Do you want to open doors?

Do you want to open doors? Last week we looked over simple yet powerful ways to see failure in a new light. I wonder how much benefit you are noticing after only one week of applying this new outlook? A […]
February 22, 2016
2016.02.22.Whats one of the most powerful F words

What’s one of the most powerful ‘F’ words?

Failure! We often give failure the wrong kind of power by thinking and behaving like it’s a permanent state that can keep us down. Rather than seeing it as a temporary condition that we can learn and grow from – […]
February 17, 2016
Love is a decision not an emotion

Is love a decision or an emotion?

Is love a decision or an emotion? There are hundreds of resources that debate whether love is an emotion or a decision. Let’s start by viewing it as an emotion… can you spot the problem? Yip, our feelings and emotions […]